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[雅思培训]父爱是否应当像母爱一样被重视

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朗阁雅思培训教师讲解父爱是否很重要。Question: In modern society, fatherhood should be emphasized as much as motherhood. Do you agree or disagree?

  朗阁雅思培训教师讲解父爱是否很重要。Question: In modern society, fatherhood should be emphasized as much as motherhood. Do you agree or disagree?

  解读:这个题目的意思是父爱是否应当像母爱一样被重视,问考生同意还是不同意。这个题目的难度可以说是非常的大。主要有两个原因:,父爱和母爱是非常抽象的话题,考生很难将其具体化。第二,父爱和母爱的分论点比较难以提炼。而且,考生还需要注意的是这个题目无论是同意或者不同意,母爱都是非常重要的。所以,这个题目主要的问题在于父爱是否是很重要的。

  1st argument:

  First of all, fatherhood plays an integral and critical role in shaping the personality and character of children. The strong impact made by fathers on children is best reflected in the case of single-parent families. Children raised in such families are often characterized by low self-esteem, because the fact that they come from broken families is frequently discriminated against and considered a laughing stock by their peers. Worse yet, in the event of divorce, it is widely adopted practice that the custody of the children is often granted to the mother and the father is obliged to pay a small sum of alimony on a regular basis-barely sufficient for the mother and the child to make a decent living. So, children from single-parent families are deprived of what their peers often take for granted-fancy toys, family trips, or video games. Moreover, fathers are often portrayed as “the discipliner” in the family, responsible for taking any necessary disciplinary actions-corporal punishment in some extreme cases-against their children. Mothers, on the other hand, are simply not up to the task of disciplining their children. If that is the case, the children may easily sidetrack, running the risks of becoming either a drug addict or a felon.

  2nd argument:

  It is also worth noting that fathers can also engage in certain activities with their children that mothers are not deemed equally competent for. Sports, for instance, are not what full-time housewives have in mind when they take their children out for play. Fathers, much more qualified for sports than mothers, can teach the basic skills and techniques associated with a particular sport to their children, helping them to learn, in a step-by-step fashion, how to play these sports. In case of an accidental minor injury, fathers at least know the basic procedures needed for emergency treatment, such as how to tie a bandage properly and how to disinfect the wounds. Besides, fathers can take their children, especially boys, on adventures. They may choose to go camping in a jungle, which helps their children to deal with fears; they can go hiking or rock-climbing, providing their children opportunities to savor the victory if they succeed.

  3rd argument:

  Despite all the promising advantages of fatherhood, it is doubtful that these advantages can materialize in reality. Fathers are, in most cases, the breadwinners in the family. They are often busily involved in their career pursuits, lacking adequate time set aside for their closest family members. If they give up their career, the quality of life of the family will drop significantly. It is a dilemma that requires fathers to strike a balance between work and family.

  思路:

  首先,父亲在对孩子的性格和品德的培养扮演了一个不可或缺的关键作用。父亲对孩子的影响在单亲家庭的情况下有着明显的体现。单亲家庭里成长起来的孩子往往比较自卑,因为他们来自于一个破碎的家庭,所以他们经常被其他的同学或者是朋友嘲笑,甚至是歧视。更糟糕的是,当父母离婚的时候,孩子的抚养权往往会判给母亲,而父亲则需要定期地支付一笔抚养费。这笔抚养费可能很少,并不能满足两个人的日常的正常生活的需求。所以,来自于单亲家庭的孩子往往没有办法得到他们的同龄人所得到的东西,比如说玩具,家庭旅行的机会,或者是电子游戏。而且,父亲在很多家庭中还扮演着惩罚者的作用,他们需要采取必要的家庭教育,甚至说体罚。而母亲相比来说,无法很好地扮演好这些角色。如果父亲不在身边,而母亲又无法很好地严厉地教育好孩子的话,孩子可能会走上犯罪的道路,比如说吸食毒品或者是犯罪。

  其次,父亲也经常会带孩子们参与一些活动是母亲无法陪伴的。很多母亲可能并没有办法经常地陪他们的孩子到户外去参加一些体育锻炼。比如说,父亲可以教孩子一些运动的基本技巧和技术,帮助他们一步一步地学好如何玩这些运动。如果万一说孩子受伤了,父亲可以时间采取一些应急措施,比如说缠上绷带,或者避免伤口感染。而且,父亲可以带着孩子,尤其是男孩,去参加探险活动。他们可以在森林里扎营,锻炼孩子应对恐惧的心理;他们也可以去徒步旅行或者是攀岩,给孩子们一些机会去品尝胜利的滋味,如果他们成功的话。

  尽管说父爱有着各种各样的好处,但是这些所谓的好处并不见得一定能转化为现实。在大多数的家庭里面,父亲往往是家庭的顶梁柱,重要的经济收入来源。他们通常大多数时间里忙碌于自己的工作或者是事业,而根本没有足够的时间去陪伴家里的人。如果让他们放弃事业的话,恐怕就会遭遇一种进退两难的局面,所以这需要父亲去做出一个良好的平衡。

  Expressions:

  1.play a critical role 扮演了一个重要的角色

  2.custody of the children 孩子的抚养权

  3.be obliged to 不得不做…

  4.on a regular basis 经常的

  5.take disciplinary actions 采取惩罚措施

  6.corporal punishment 体罚

  7.run the risk 有风险

  8.competent 合格的

  9.minor injury 小的伤害

  10.savor the victory 品尝胜利的滋味
 
         

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